Sex is an important factor in a relationship, some prefer to abstain while some prefer to indulge in it. Sex creates intimacy. Sex is a beautiful thing and more beautiful if practiced when married. Well this write-up is not about sex before or after marriage, it's about sex in a relationship.
Sex like
any other thing loses it's flavor when abused. Too much of anything is
bad. In some relationships, some couples have sex as often as they drink
water. This has an adverse effect on the guys. To a lady it 'may'
increase the love she has for her spouse and may be a proof of love but to
guys too much of sex with a partner diminishes the attraction they feel
for their ladies. Too much sex with a partner makes men crave something
new, something fresh, something they've not had, something like a new
challenge. Please emphasis is on too much sex before I get accused of
encouraging cheating on your girlfriend once you have sex, I never said that.
Some couples have sex anytime they are together, they must tear each other
apart any little chance they get. This makes the guy want variety cuz
he's getting too much of your dose. Some couples at night have sex not
minding the presence of their friends in the room when they feel
everybody is sleeping. Guys have a little respect for your ladies and
ladies how do u expect to be respected when u don't respect yourselves.
How can you allow him have sex with you when your friends or his friends are
around?
Sometimes some leave their friends gisting in the room and go
into the kitchen or bathroom to have sex. That's abuse, you're abusing sex
and a guy that does that has no regard for you. He sees you as a sex object
and tosses you off when he gets bored.
Am not against sex but why
can't you at least once in a while have fun in the bedroom without sex? U
can be in your briefs but u play, kiss, cuddle and have fun without
actually having sex. Check your love level, check if he's just lusting
after you or in love wit you, once in a while insist on no sex, just cuddle
and play and gist.
Sometimes guys go into relationships wit the mindset of
being serious but get tired of it cuz of the amount of sex they are
getting. Am not saying this is the cause of all heart breaks but some are
caused by this.
You're in a relationship and whenever you're with your spouse your
clothes suddenly catches fire and you remove it faster than clark kent
could ever dream of. Some guys have become experts in removing bras that
they can remove it by just looking at it. See how much fun you can have
with your spouse without sex in the bedroom. The bed wasn't meant for sex
alone coz when some people see a bed sex comes into mind.
Try and
spend a night talking about yourselves and your future and then cuddle up
and sleep. You mustn't have sex. Some guys don't know what their girls
have planned out for 2moro but can tell u the panties she'd wear tomorrow. U
know all her panties but you don't know her surname. You calculate her
menstrual cycle so you would know wen not to ask her to come around for sex
but you don't know how good she's doing in school as a matter of fact you only
know her department but not her grades in school.
You haven't for once seen her read but you
don't care coz all you want is her waist.
Relationships
aren't just for fun you
should better the life of your spouse and make him/her a better person
instead of making him/her worse than you met them.
Sex like any other thing loses it's flavor when abused. Too much of anything is bad. In some relationships, some couples have sex as often as they drink water. This has an adverse effect on the guys. To a lady it 'may' increase the love she has for her spouse and may be a proof of love but to guys too much of sex with a partner diminishes the attraction they feel for their ladies. Too much sex with a partner makes men crave something new, something fresh, something they've not had, something like a new challenge. Please emphasis is on too much sex before I get accused of encouraging cheating on your girlfriend once you have sex, I never said that.
Some couples have sex anytime they are together, they must tear each other apart any little chance they get. This makes the guy want variety cuz he's getting too much of your dose. Some couples at night have sex not minding the presence of their friends in the room when they feel everybody is sleeping. Guys have a little respect for your ladies and ladies how do u expect to be respected when u don't respect yourselves. How can you allow him have sex with you when your friends or his friends are around?
Am not against sex but why can't you at least once in a while have fun in the bedroom without sex? U can be in your briefs but u play, kiss, cuddle and have fun without actually having sex. Check your love level, check if he's just lusting after you or in love wit you, once in a while insist on no sex, just cuddle and play and gist.
Sometimes guys go into relationships wit the mindset of being serious but get tired of it cuz of the amount of sex they are getting. Am not saying this is the cause of all heart breaks but some are caused by this.
You're in a relationship and whenever you're with your spouse your clothes suddenly catches fire and you remove it faster than clark kent could ever dream of. Some guys have become experts in removing bras that they can remove it by just looking at it. See how much fun you can have with your spouse without sex in the bedroom. The bed wasn't meant for sex alone coz when some people see a bed sex comes into mind.
Try and spend a night talking about yourselves and your future and then cuddle up and sleep. You mustn't have sex. Some guys don't know what their girls have planned out for 2moro but can tell u the panties she'd wear tomorrow. U know all her panties but you don't know her surname. You calculate her menstrual cycle so you would know wen not to ask her to come around for sex but you don't know how good she's doing in school as a matter of fact you only know her department but not her grades in school.
You haven't for once seen her read but you don't care coz all you want is her waist.
Relationships
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